Vine is a dragon that loves people, but is toxic to them: \u201cThe poison dragon loves people. Not for breakfast, it just thinks they\u2019re great company. Unfortunately, people don\u2019t often react well to their deadly neurotoxin.\u201d (From the DragonvaleWiki).<\/p>\n
Our love can similarly hurt people, if it is selfish and possessive. I recently watched two movie versions of Wuthering Heights<\/span>, in which the brooding and passionate Heathcliff loves Cathy deeply, but his love is poisonous and selfish. It rips apart two families and destroys many lives. Hell on earth is the result.<\/p>\n Love can and should echo heaven. In fact, scripture tells us that \u201cGod is love.\u201d But this is a deeper kind of love than mere affection, or than the Romantic love of Cupid and Valentines Day, or than the Eros and passion of Heathcliff and numerous late night movies. Jesus says that \u201cGreater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.\u201d<\/p>\n The love of God, that we are called to emulate in all our relationships is a selfless, sacrificial love, that is called \u201cagape\u201d in Greek, the language of the New Testament. Agape isn\u2019t merely about self sacrifice, though. In its fullness of meaning it is \u201cother elevating\u201d. C. S. Lewis put it like this: \u201cLove is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person\u2019s ultimate good as far as it can be obtained\u201d.<\/p>\n C.S. Lewis wrote eloquently of Iove, delineating four types of love, and analyzing them as potential reflections of God. He also discusses how each of these loves can be twisted and warped by humans if we are not careful. For more on this I commend his book, The Four Loves<\/span>, as well as the parable Til We Have Faces<\/span>.<\/p>\n My slightly belated Valentine\u2019s wish for you is that your earthly loves do not poison, but rather exalt. And may you feel yourself lucky enough to be the recipient of such exaltation. It is a glimpse of heaven.<\/body><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" What do Valentines Day, Wuthering Heights, Vine the poison dragon from the game \u201cDragonvale\u201d, and the beloved author CS Lewis have in common? Not much, at first glance, but let me push on a bit. Vine is a dragon that loves people, but is toxic to them: \u201cThe poison dragon loves people. Not for breakfast, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[66],"tags":[70,73,75,77,69,74,76,71,72],"class_list":["post-116","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-whispers-of-heaven","tag-agape","tag-c-s-lewis","tag-dragonvale","tag-love","tag-poisonous-love","tag-the-four-loves","tag-til-we-have-faces","tag-valentines-day","tag-wuthering-heights"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":119,"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116\/revisions\/119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/theundergroundchurch.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}